tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post2525282351759238695..comments2023-06-29T16:11:29.142+01:00Comments on High land, hard rain: Missing a due dateBetty Mhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02106396238018550134noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-60262176470900702982008-09-11T23:13:00.000+01:002008-09-11T23:13:00.000+01:00Unfilled due dates are hard. i try not to remember...Unfilled due dates are hard. i try not to remember mine, although of course around september I always get a bit wistful.<BR/><BR/>And as for the whole natural pregnancy thing, oh yes! It would be lovely to have that experience. I'm so sorry yours ended in loss.<BR/><BR/>JGeohdehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09084396088622931768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-59096707655706866642008-07-25T20:42:00.000+01:002008-07-25T20:42:00.000+01:00I still know all the anniversaries. They are hard....I still know all the anniversaries. They are hard. I think H has forgotten, but I don't ask because I don't want to make him feel bad. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry this happened - the joy of being able to do what everyone else does, and then having it taken away.<BR/><BR/>But do share re 4th birthday party politics, that sounds juicy.Thaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125639207843989848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-15162409225699585092008-07-17T21:21:00.000+01:002008-07-17T21:21:00.000+01:00I'm sorry, sweetie, that you're feeling so down.Be...I'm sorry, sweetie, that you're feeling so down.<BR/><BR/>Bereavement anniversaries are so hard. <BR/><BR/>Thinking of you xPortia Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08344574775614817555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-773693306322356662008-07-15T03:58:00.000+01:002008-07-15T03:58:00.000+01:00I wondered why the whole world didn't stop and say...I wondered why the whole world didn't stop and say "Wow, are you still here? We can't believe you made it... that sucked so badly!"<BR/>I knew in my bones when the anniversary my miscarriage came around and when the due date that never happened arrived. Couldn't believe my husband didn't. But I think he did think "Wow, this should have been our first Christmas as a family." <BR/>I am marking your loss, and am so sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-68126950738316584162008-07-15T01:49:00.000+01:002008-07-15T01:49:00.000+01:00I am sorry. Due dates with nothing to hold are so ...I am sorry. Due dates with nothing to hold are so hard. My husband doesn't remember either. I also hate it when people say at least you can get pregnant. Well not without help and since I need help it may not happen. Anyway I am so sorry this date is here. Take care<BR/> ((hugs))Miahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16782033368448744333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-57107001437539403092008-07-15T00:52:00.000+01:002008-07-15T00:52:00.000+01:00Oh Lovely,I'm so sorry. I wish I could make it be...Oh Lovely,<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry. I wish I could make it better. Sending you lots of love.<BR/><BR/>xAlmamayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07206790533323008540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-26218662651064506282008-07-15T00:51:00.000+01:002008-07-15T00:51:00.000+01:00I am so sorry for your loss. Sending my best to yo...I am so sorry for your loss. Sending my best to you. Here from Lost and Foung.Martha@A Sense of Humor is Essentialhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129428477996644401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-84124159483387866082008-07-14T22:34:00.000+01:002008-07-14T22:34:00.000+01:00I'll be thinking of you as you get through these d...I'll be thinking of you as you get through these dates that are kept so close to you.JW Moxiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16865232770753428076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-64381280927407954362008-07-14T17:16:00.000+01:002008-07-14T17:16:00.000+01:00I am sorry. And the "at least you X..." people pis...I am sorry. And the "at least you X..." people piss me off with their chickenshit stupidity. A lot. How do they not get that they are not allowed to look for silver lining in someone else's cloud? Not.their.job!Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09745262857388007041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-57978257598636997042008-07-14T16:29:00.000+01:002008-07-14T16:29:00.000+01:00My husband would (and never could) remember any so...My husband would (and never could) remember any sorts of dates like that. Whereas I, even with these early m/c's I had earlier this year, will always recall the dates that Should Have Been.<BR/><BR/>It floors me that other people don't think like that.Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1881397235600203280.post-19390627322143813842008-07-14T16:10:00.000+01:002008-07-14T16:10:00.000+01:00After the first two years of reminding my husband ...After the first two years of reminding my husband why I was going to the cemetary, I stopped mentioning it and just went. It hurts to have to hit those dates alone, but for me, it was more painful to have to explain what and why to him each time.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry, my dear.DDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17864339996118337420noreply@blogger.com